Free Printable Holiday Menus in Golden Isles Magazine!

The Story

A few months ago I received a call from the editor of The Golden Isles Magazine. She asked if I was interested in doing a DIY holiday place settings article for their fall/winter issue. Might sound like an odd request given my profession at first, but in my mind, I thought…”YAASSSS!” before she even finished her sentence. Within an hour I had three ideas ready to go. Honestly, I kind of thought she may think I was crazy because called her back immediately but I went for it. Good news, she didn’t run, and we were both on the same page! My mind works quickly, and most of the time the first ideas are my best ideas so, it’s a blessing and a curse.

A week later, Irma came. A hurricane of any magnitude throws your entire life off course, it can often take weeks or months to get life back on track. Small businesses suffer, families struggle but a magical thing also happens, we all forget our differences and help each other. It’s the silver lining if you can possibly call it that.

Once life returned to somewhat normal, we revisited the article idea and arranged for a photoshoot. What a great experience to see this side of the process. I am so happy to share the free holiday printables I designed for the project with you.

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The Printables from Santa’s Workshop

You can choose the “Blue Snowflakes” design, the “Put a Bird On It” design, the “Festive Red” design or the “Keep it Simple” design. Please feel free to print them out for your personal use at your holiday dinner party this season. If you are interested in having the menu customized, I am happy to add your own menu and dinner guest names. Please contact me for pricing or to create a completely unique menu or invitation for your special event, wedding, or holiday party.

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Is the business card dead?

Interesting thought about business cards, are they really dead? I think this one is a matter of opinion, but in this graphic designers mind, they are most certainly not.

Social media dominates our world. All you have to do is look at the phone book that was recently delivered. That book is an old dinosaur to most folks. I used to sit on the directory as a child when I needed to be higher up to the table, and it weighed quite a few pounds. The recently delivered telephone book was about the size of a journal. The bigger questions is how many times do you refer to that book in your daily life today? Never would be my answer because I go online and search for what I need.

This leads me to the topic of conversation, the business card. Will it soon join its friend in the land of the dinosaurs? I don’t believe so and here is why.

Let’s do a little scenario. You are at a networking event and have to introduce yourself quickly to multiple people. What is the quickest way to do that? Business card.

Second scenario. You have been invited to speak at a monthly meeting, and these people could be your potential clients. You have 3 minutes to leave a lasting impression, and you can hand out materials. Leave the brochure, leave the rack card but make sure you leave the business card too because that is what will get kept. It may go in a bowl or a Rolodex, maybe even thrown into a drawer but it will be there and when they think of you and what will they search for? Business card.

Third and final scenario. An existing client has a meeting and meets someone who could use your services, but you are not there. They chat about you, talk about what a fantastic business you are, it’s a perfect fit. Luckily what does the supporter have to pass on to this possible new customer? Business card.

Ok, I think that is all the role playing we need for now. Hopefully, you are beginning to see my point. In our world today I still firmly believe you need a card to identify and remind people what you do. A friend recently told me she heard a podcast where they were discussing why you no longer need business cards because social media was your story. I believe that is partly true. Social media is a great tool for showing people what we do on a daily basis. However, the beginning of the story, the cover of your book starts with you and your business card.

What’s in a Name? Typebird is Revealed!

So many times people have asked me where did the name come from? What’s Typebird mean? I guess maybe it’s time to explain in a little more detail.

This story goes backward. I started with a name, and the real reason for the name came about afterward. I promise it makes sense so please, keep reading.

Traveling home from a long trip, my husband and I started thinking about name choices for my business. As always I start with the domain name first, if you can’t get the website you will have a hard time directing people to find you. Typography has always been a big part of my life because of my profession choice, so that was a no-brainer to try and incorporate. Birds are different. I give people birds. No, not like I gift them birds in a cage, but I make them a bird in my mind. I know it’s silly, but to me, it’s means something. My grandfather was always told that he “watched me like a hawk” so now when I see one it reminds me of him. It’s comforting to me, and so when my husband said Typebird, it worked, and I immediately said that’s it!
During this time my father had been battling cancer. He was a Marine, a veteran who fought in Vietnam. His Cancer had come from being exposed to Agent Orange in the war. I kept thinking, why did it have to surface so many years later right about the time he retired. Sometimes life just isn’t fair. We got a year and a half with my dad after the diagnosis before he passed away. It broke me a little if I am honest, I don’t think one ever truly gets over losing a parent.

My father passed away in the summer and not too long after, a little yellow bird showed up at our house and slept night after night on a tree branch in the front of our house. It took me awhile to figure out what type of bird it was, and I kept saying to my husband, “I don’t know what TYPE of BIRD it is, but I will identify it.” He stayed there every night for three months, same tree, same branch, every night. I checked for him religiously. It ended up being a blue-headed vireo that visited for that whole time. He never came back, and I didn’t expect him to.

So the name sort of came about twice, if you will. I usually explain the first story because the second one is a bit hard to get through and a little deep for a business conversation, but it certainly means more. To feel comfort in something so simple does wonders for the soul. Now, everyday it makes me work harder as a small business owner and an artist. I had a little, feathered cheerleader for a short time that kept me going when I needed it most. Never will I forget that.

Netwerk Like it Ain’t Work!

Networking. Some of us love it, some of us hate it. Either way, it is essential in your small business!

I have been very lucky to have many clients through word of mouth over the years that I didn’t have to face the networking crowds when I lived in Florida. It wasn’t until our recent move to Georgia when I found myself needing to get out there and meet my new community. I didn’t want to work here without being involved in the local area and knowing what clients needed out in the low country.

Here are some helpful tips to boost your confidence and get you on the right track for networking in your community. You will be a pro in no time and remember, everyone, is just as nervous as you are so werk it!

Where to Go
There are many networking groups in every city, the number one place to start looking is the Chamber of Commerce if you are interested in starting with a trusted source. You can also google networking groups in your town. I highly suggest asking locals for advice; there may be smaller groups you didn’t even know that fit your niche better. The bigger the city, the more choices you will have. Choices are a good thing! Most groups allow you to visit once for free if they require membership dues. They get to meet you, and you get to see if it’s the right fit for you too. When trying out a group ask yourself after, did I meet enough people who might need my services? Was there anyone interesting I would like to get to know more and possibly use their services? Does the time of this meeting work for me monthly? Being able to attend regular meetings after you join is paramount so make sure you can benefit from the membership fee you will have to pay. With this in mind take advantage of these one-time expeditions. Network with the folks you meet, don’t pass up any opportunity.

Find an Event
Ok, hopefully by now you have picked the right networking group; it’s time to breathe! Let’s talk about going to your first event within that group. Make sure you dress the part. If the event is a formal one don’t show up in casual attire, impress them, so they remember you! If it is a monthly meeting, feel free to wear day to day work attire but try to amp it up a bit. I can’t stress this enough; you need to be you but still look professional! I sit in front of a computer all day. I wear jeans because they are comfortable and I love them. Attire for an artist is just as important as it is for anyone else in the business world. However, when I go to a meeting I still wear jeans, but I certainly like dress them up to make an impression. Fun jewelry or scarves can certainly make any outfit pop so get creative and be memorable!

Ask a Friend
Know someone in the group? Ask them to join you! Friends make things more fun so why not use this as an opportunity for you both to mingle together. It’s a lot less painful I assure you. Plus it is a great way to cross network, they may know business owners you don’t and vice versa.

Have Enough
When I say have enough I mean have enough on all accounts. Have enough business cards, have enough courage to talk to people, have enough energy to be present, have enough skills that you can openly talk about and look knowledgeable in your field, have enough confidence to know you’ve got this! There have been many times when I have gone to an event and walked in the room and though, wow, I should have gotten better sleep and I probably should have ironed this shirt a little better. If you don’t feel 100% you probably won’t perform your best so give yourself some slack. Know in your heart this just might not be the right day to show up, it’s ok to miss one meeting, don’t beat yourself up for it.

It’s not over yet
So the event is over, and you feel pretty good about it. You have passed out business cards and have received some in return. Now, what do you do? Go back to the office and get to work? Of course, but don’t forget to carve out some time later that day or the next morning to email those kind folks who connected with you and gave you a business card. Even if you email them and they do not respond, even if you probably don’t see yourself doing business with them directly…they will remember that email and maybe down the line need your services or know someone else who might. If you do get a response from them, ask if they would like to meet for coffee to learn more about them. You can advertise as much as you like, but word of mouth clients are truly priceless. You can only obtain them through your ambition and drive to make your business the best it can be. Remember to be polite and available to connect and it will be rewarded, I promise!

Photo by Hope Farm Co.

In closing I would like to say, I got really lucky. When I started looking for that perfect group that would fit me best in my new community I found a creative group that made me a better. A better businesswoman and a much better artist! They inspire me and I am so excited each month when I get to see them all at our monthly meeting. There is a constant feeling of support and collaboration, they want to lift each other up which is a true gift.  I have been honored to help some of them with their branding and in return, they have helped me so much as well. I also recently joined the Chamber of Commerce in our area too and I am looking forward to meeting more businesses in the future.

I will leave you with this last piece of advice, don’t be afraid. Others in the room are just as nervous as you are, know this when you walk in. Make eye contact with someone and just say hello to start that conversation. Now, put on your big girl pants and get out there, it’s time to NetWerk!

 

Hurricane Survival, What this Designer Learned

Hurricane Matthew, what a nightmare! I lived in Florida forty-three years before relocating to Georgia, never have I ever evacuated. Please know that I am not a rebel who refuses to leave, we just never got to that point where it was a mandatory evacuation. This time, it was no joke and with kids in tow, we weren’t taking any chances.

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Wednesday, October 5th – Storm is approaching. People ask the Floridian (me) if she is evacuating. I jokingly say, “Nah, I am a Floridian, we don’t leave for hurricanes.” Seriously though, I was kidding when I said this but truly in my heart I never thought it would get to the point where I actually considered leaving. Some of our neighbors already started to leave in the neighborhood. Electricity is still on.

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Morning of Thursday, October 6th – Storm is flipping huge and it’s coming to us, directly in our path and it’s a category 4 storm. Now, I am considering leaving. By noon nerves are completely shot with worry. Thoughts like did we get enough insurance, did we wait too long, why did I say I was working on this day when I can barely think, should we just hunker down or go now? And by the way, the “hunker down” word currently makes me cringe because until you actually have to do it, it has a completely different meaning. Facebook posts are running wild at this point with people posting that they are leaving. A Mandatory evacuation of Zone A in Glynn County comes over the news, we are Zone B. Real worry sets in. No work done. Electricity is still on.

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Afternoon of Thursday, October 6th – Our neighborhood is windy and overcast, many have already left. We are preparing to leave. We hadn’t fully committed but we were packing and getting things ready so in our hearts I think we were ready to go. Two kids, two dogs, the cat and two very nervous parents. Around 1:30 p.m. the mandatory evacuation came over the tv, we decided to listen and leave. We took my husband’s car, it’s smaller than mine but I need new tires and didn’t want to make a long trip longer. We only had room for the living things in our home, important papers, hard drives and a couple nights of clothes. The good things, the things you really wanted to take like my grandfather’s 100-year-old toolbox, had to stay. Although I know what matters in life and that this is just a thing, it is still a memory and it was difficult to leave it and many other items as well like photographs, just in case. We evacuated to Florida of all places, my hometown of Inverness. No work done. Electricity is still on.

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Morning of Friday, October 7th – Mentally exhausted from the whole ordeal and the trip that took almost six hours instead of the normal three. The hurricane is still moving at a snail’s pace in our minds. Spent the day trying to entertain the kids and checking in with the neighbors who stayed. Went to the movies with the kids, did a little shopping, never acknowledging the fact that there was a tropical storm warning in the town where we were staying, that explained all the wind. Checking Facebook, storm is still moving, would make landfall that evening at our home in Georgia. Those who stayed kept in touch. No work done. Electricity still on.

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Afternoon of Friday, October 7th – Lots of news channel watching, we were like deer in headlights as we watched these colors move across the screen. It was moving with the shape of the coast, slowly. Reports coming in of damage it left in it’s path. St. Augustine, one of my favorite places, took a monstrous beating. Our neighbors at home sent video of the wind and our house before it actually came. I worried, I wanted to know if the pines in the backyard would still be standing when we returned. Nightfall came and at 10:35 they lost power, the storm was at full force. No work done. I barely slept.

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Morning of Saturday, October 8th – It was gone. We waited patiently for those at home to report and no damage. We were so relieved, we had a home to come back to. There was no flooding, at most we would loose the food in the fridge. A sense of relief came until we started watching the news. Those around us were not as lucky. Shrimp boats sank, trees on roofs, they wouldn’t even let people back into their homes, we were one of the lucky ones. We packed up, anxious to return but State troopers blocked the exits into the county. Again, social media is our friend and with these reports, we sat tight because we didn’t want to pack up the circus only to be turned away. No work done. Electricity still off.

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Afternoon of Saturday, October 8th – Still determined to leave to come home. Unpacked and decided to go early morning instead. Better safe than sorry, poor husband is officially sick. No work done. Electricity still off.

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Morning of Sunday, October 9th – We are going home. Packed up everyone headed out. Many trees down along the way. Closer to home we see power lines down, homes with trees, very large trees toppled over, some were not so lucky with trees on roofs. After seeing this I am glad we left. We set an example for the kids and they understood why we did go. Our house is fine, our neighbors are fine, their houses are fine, everyone else has started coming home. We shared things like stories and food, we took care of each other, any differences of any kind were put aside. The kids played together outside, the sky was clear and the temperature was in the 70’s. We couldn’t have ordered a more perfect day after all that chaos. I felt connected to living here, I felt like this was my home for the first time since we moved here. I wanted to paint a wall. I know this will sound ridiculous, but I have never moved into a house that didn’t need something. This house was complete when we moved in, we bought it so we wouldn’t have to do anything since we worked so hard on our last house. However, I never felt like I owned it or that it needed me until we returned home. Tragedy, of any kind, whether you actually experience it or were grazed by it affects us all in the oddest ways. For me, this was something that I did not expect. Living here now instead of just being here. I found my place, right here where I had been all along. No work done. Electricity still off.

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Evening of Sunday, October 9th –  The sun went down and we had lost light for less than an hour, candles were going and the kids were putting on a show to pass the time when the electricity came back on. For a moment we were pioneers, it was nice. To my surprise they were disappointed, I was too. We lost power for a less than 48 hours, thanks to the awesome folks at Georgia Power.

I lost two days of work, just two. Many businesses couldn’t even open once they finally got back to work until a week later, some had damage and lost two weeks or more. For any small business, one day lost is huge, more than that can be crucial.  This act of mother nature, while it put things into perspective for me, affected so many people up and down ourFlorida and Georgia coast financially. It was a lesson on many levels and I asked myself what I had learned in all of this. The people, the places you worry about while you are gone, take note of those. Support those businesses after they are back up and running. We can’t do everything alone, but we can support each other by going to dinner at a local restaurant, by buying gifts in a local store, hiring professional services locally, it’s the little things that really add up. Have your friends and family come and visit where you live this year for their vacation to help put money back into this area, support the trusted people you know. At the end of the day we are all in this together. We are a community that supports each other. Electricity is back on and I am picking out paint colors.

 

What Do Graphic Designers Do?

Many people have said to me lately “I don’t know exactly what you do.” When I hear that I get worried. I think to myself am I not doing something right to communicate to my clients what I actually do? What can I do better? Have they not been paying attention to my posts on social media? But then it dawned on me, I truly don’t think people understand all that graphic designers do.

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If you Google this question here is your answer:  “Graphic designers create visual concepts, using computer software or by hand, to communicate ideas that inspire, inform, and captivate consumers. They develop the overall layout and production design for various applications such as advertisements, brochures, magazines, and corporate reports.”  But what do graphic designers, freelancers like myself actually do? There is a long list so get a cup of coffee, sit back and be ready to be amazed! Ok, we don’t have to go that far but here is the list.

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Logos. Branding. Business Cards. Packaging. Menus. Brochures. Rack Cards. Promotional Items. Consultation for Non-Creatives. Invitations. Blog & Website Concept Design. Digital Banners & Ads. Letterhead. Custom Stationary. Billboards. Appointment Cards. Post Cards. Surface Pattern Design. Signage. Folders. Mailers. Stamps. Stickers. Posters. Printables. Thank You Notes. Tote Bags. Wrapping Paper. Gift Boxes. The Label on Your Favorite Salsa. Your Favorite Dress. Umbrellas. T-Shirts. Get Where I Am Going With This? We Are Literally Everywhere.

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My, my where do I start. There are truly so many things we are capable of. However, many of us have a strong point. Something we love in this crazy design world more than anything else. For me, it’s a logo. But it doesn’t just stop with a logo, I love all the things need for creating an entire brand such as business cards, letterhead, I love to make it all work together. Many times before people ask why I enjoy it so much and the truth is, I can’t stop it. I drive by businesses every day and think to myself, “How would I have done it differently.” I know that sounds crazy but I do believe there are some things you are just really good at in life. This is mine. Now, with this being said, this does not mean I won’t do anything else. Of course, I will! I have the skills needed to design and have printed many items on paper or digital or any surface really. We are the folks who set up the things you need for your life with programs you have no idea how to use. Like a plumber who comes to fix a leak in your house that you also would not attempt to do yourself. Hire a designer, be proud of your results. Hire a designer who is an actual person you can talk to and not someone somewhere who you will probably never meet or know their name. Hire someone who wants to make you and your business better, who invests in you equally as much as you invest in them.

Graphic designers have a skill set of style cultivated through many years of education, along with many aches and pains…kidding. Critiques are rough y’all! But we are flexible, we want to help you with various projects, not just your logo but also that menu that has the logo we helped you create on top of it. We know a lot about printing and could probably give you some money saving advice without compromising the vibe of your business. I highly encourage you to create a relationship with a designer you know. You just might find a sensible friend at the other end of the line.

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Pro BoNo!

For any designer or artist, this topic is difficult. At the beginning of a freelance career, it is very common to be asked to do a project for free or pro bono. Here is the interesting part, it is also common in the middle of your design career and from what I understand until the last day of your design career. People honestly think they are doing you a favor by giving you the opportunity to create something for their business based on recognition only, no payment. It baffles me. I also don’t think people are not trying to be malicious. I believe they genuinely feel like they are helping you in some way. In my head I have the conversation with myself when this question arises, “You wouldn’t ask a plumber to come over and fix a leaking pipe for free, so why do you ask me?” Ironically, Jon Acuff had this same thought as well and wrote a fantastic blog and did a video about it too, take a look at both of those later on. The question arises here, how to say politely no when asked to do something pro bono and still get the work. It’s a thin tightrope to walk, but here are a few ways to think about it. It’s time to consider if you are ready to put your acrobatic skills to work!

When should you and when shouldn’t you do pro bono jobs for clients or potential clients.

When it benefits you

If the potential client has an audience that you cannot reach other than by doing this project, consider it. For example, a non-profit that you support. Non-profits have strict budgets, but they also have business owners who donate money and can afford your services. If they see you are a like minded business owner, you may find yourself with a few new clients in the long run. My advice to you in this situation is you need to set parameters in the very beginning. I have worked with many non-profits, all said and done exposure is good. If you get your name on a step and repeat or on a flyer that goes out to 5,000 people that’s considered good exposure but it doesn’t always mean you will get a job out of it. Keep it in perspective and if there are many people on a committee making decisions, make sure you have one contact only within that committee. You DO NOT want to be part of an email war about why the guy in finance wants the design to be purple when the vice-president loves blue! The power struggle there is not yours to deal with. They can elect one person who is your contact, I urge you to be upfront about this in the beginning. Also, be VERY clear about what services and time you are gifting them. If there has ever been a time for open communication and being clear, it’s time to get crystal clear!

Long-term client who pays consistently

If you have a client who pays on time and gives you consistent work, I say do it. It is a kindness that says hey, I appreciate your business. Now, this doesn’t mean create an entire book or a logo for free but if it is something that can be done quickly and within reason for them personally, this is where to do it. Words cannot express how much I value the constant client, and they deserve special treatment. I promise you this is where the pro bono comes in very handy, and you won’t regret it as long as you and they are realistic about what you are doing for them. Cover your bases as always and communicate that this is a one-time favor.

Because the design is just that bad and you see it as a challenge, yes, I just said that out loud

First off, never tell your potential client this is why you took this low paying gig. And when I say low paying, there needs to be some type of barter or small fee here. I have often driven by a business that I love and want to walk in the door and just say, “I will help you for free, just don’t close your doors because I can’t live without your product or services.” However much in your head that is a compliment, I assure you it’s not. Conversation is the key here. If you frequent a local place, and they are a start up business, most likely they are just trying to make it like the rest of us. If you have an opportunity to discuss this matter face to face, I can assure you this conversation will go well if you start off along the lines of “I love what you are doing here, have you chosen a design company to work with yet?” This is the time you use to feel them out. Who have they spoken to and do they have any money at all for advertising? If you feel like helping this business will come back to you, meaning they are going to grow, and you want in, this might be a perfect pro bono situation.

Family & Friends

This one is tough. Mom wants a fantastic Christmas card in your spare time and cousin Sherri is turning 40 and wants to invite her besties to her party and only needs ten cards, can you help? The list is long, and you may want to strangle them because they are family but try hard to resist. At the end of the day if you want to help, do it. If not, tell them you have too much on your plate, and you can’t manage it at this time. Be honest and move forward.

At the end of the day, there are many other situations for the pro bono experience. I have learned, more than once, that you have to go into it knowing you may be burned. I don’t like saying that, but I want you to be aware. I remember a t-shirt design I was supposed to do for a volunteer type project. I spent a lot of time trying to make everyone happy ( so many cooks in the kitchen) and when the t-shirts were delivered there were changes to my design that I didn’t exactly know about. Surprised? Me too. It turns out, the person in contact with the printer requested those changes and the printer did it without my consultation. I guess they didn’t think it mattered to me. Shame on me for this one, lesson learned.

On the flip side, when I believe strongly in something I do give breaks in regards to design. Not all of my experiences have been bad. Non-profits imparticular hold a special place in my heart since it is where I came from. I do believe it is good to help others but I also believe we should protect what we create and don’t abuse it by giving it away. Pay it forward when you can because good karma is important my friends! Pro BoNo? Maybe Pro BoYes?

 

Working from Home

Since I started my own small business eight years ago, there have been many obstacles. However, I think one of the hardest and easiest decisions I made was to work from home. I worried about the image of my business in this arrangement. Would people think I was not serious because I didn’t have an actual office they could visit? Would they question my skills because of this? Many thoughts ran through my head, and many doubts followed them. When I got to the core of the choice, the one reason I choose to work at home, that was what put my mind to rest. Why did I make the decision to go out on my own in the first place? Children. I wanted to be able to do all I could for them as they grow, to have that flexibility. I realize this is not for everyone; kids go to daycare every day; mine went to preschool when they were little. For me, I have the privilege to do this thanks to my husband, and I don’t take that lightly. I am grateful every day. I wanted to be the one to drop them off and pick them up from school, those 15 minutes in the car each day are important to me, and I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

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With this being said, it’s not all sunny days and roses here so please don’t mistake that. There are days when becoming a truck driver sounds like a better idea. Me in a big rig driving alone for hours…alone…did I mention alone? No laundry, no cooking dinner or grabbing someone a snack in the middle of an important deadline. Sounds like a dream! I am kidding, the good does outweigh the bad, but there are always obstacles. For example, when the kids were babies my whole day was spent around their schedule. I molded my day around naptime, food and playtime. I got pretty good at that even though it was monotonous at times. Nap time was meeting time, and it worked, I made it work. The fantastic thing about my clients that I did not expect is that understood. They valued my skills; they respected my time, and they helped me make it work. I truly believe if things are right, they tend to fall into place. I was open and honest about how and where I worked, and although it stressed me to relay this to them in the beginning, they appreciated it and no one had any issues. This does not mean my life was not stressful at times; it just means that it worked itself out.

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A few years later the kids were both in school full time and an office space became available for me outside the home. I was so excited! My own work address, my own space, and no one would touch anything! I was eager and ready to take the business to the next level. The next chapter had begun, and I felt accomplished. Clients were able to come to my office, and I had neighbors, people who were small business owners just like me. We chatted and laughed together on a daily basis, and I loved it. That tiny office was a bit of freedom for a mom who just wanted to feel like herself before children. When I sit down and think about it, I realize holding on hard to my profession has been a financial choice of course, but the root of it is me. I wanted to be a mom and a small business owner too. I have had a job since I was 15 years old, I think it is just how I am programmed. I wanted to do both. Being a mother is hard work, it is the hardest job I have ever had along with being the most rewarding. I see myself working and owning a small business as an example for my children. That they too can manage a family and their dreams at the same time if they choose to do so.

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I was there for almost two years when we made the decision to move. I cried a lot. I felt like I was giving up a part of myself and that was hard. I packed up, said my goodbyes and we relocated. Now I am back at home. Things tend to work in full circles; life is funny that way. I have to say; I don’t hate it. I was as surprised as anyone. My new office at home has worked itself out, and the light is good. That is important to a designer you know. I have new hurdles of course and instead of working around nap times I use the time they are both in school. When they come home, they have chores and homework, so I get a full 8 hours of work in per day. More time than I have ever had before to work. If you are a parent working from home and struggling here are five tips for you to be more successful. It’s not an easy task and each one of these tips will not work itself out overnight but it’s a start!

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#1 Don’t doubt yourself

You can make a business happen anywhere if you want it bad enough. It can be as small as a laptop on a kitchen table, but if you focus on the goal, you will succeed.

#2 Communicate

Be honest, tell your clients the situation. If you work from home, and the UPS folks show up and your dog goes nuts in the background they may think, where is this person? If they know you work from home, just apologize and move on. They won’t even think twice about it.

#3 Mold yourself

Be willing to be flexible. If you have small children, make a schedule and get them on it. I used to find time to work at night when the days got hectic.

#4 Close the door

Work can consume you and then you never shut it off. Let yourself leave the work in your office. If you find yourself on the couch at night, and you are aching to go back to your desk or you are answering emails on your phone when you are supposed to be spending quality time with your significant other, there is a problem. You MUST shut it off! I think this is the most important point of all. Know your boundaries, keep hold of them. Think about it, you could have missed that pivotal point in Game of Thrones with Jon Snow this season because you were looking at an email, that would have been tragic;)

#5 Appreciate it

Working from home can be stressful. You may even regret it some days. But remind yourself as much as you can about why you are here. I promise this will be the easiest one of them all. Family matters and your presence will be noticed for years to come!

 

You can read a similar blog to this I wrote last year here. I do it to track my progress each year.